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29Aug, 2019

Strengthening Your Spirits During Difficult Times

Posted by : Universal Life Church Ministry Comments Off on Strengthening Your Spirits During Difficult Times
Be mindful of the company you keep during difficult times.

Life has a way of throwing a few curveballs your way when you’re least expecting it. Though you may have been through your fair share of ups and downs over your years, it can still be hard to find your center and feel strong when you keep getting beat back down. Having a strong spiritual core can be an invaluable asset during difficult times like this. Of course, it is sometimes easier said than done, and plenty of people require assistance when it comes to strengthening their spiritual centers and feeling whole.

If you are trying to strengthen your own spirits, now is a great time to start exploring some simple suggestions. Look over these tips and find your own path to spiritual strength.

Find the Right Company

The old saying “misery loves company” is true for a number of reasons. When you’re in a low place, finding people to commiserate with over your melancholy is par for the course. People tend to flock together when they have a shared enemy, whether it be a terrible workplace, a frustrating partner, or a bout with depression. Unfortunately, surrounding yourself with people who only help you sink further into this state of mind can do far more harm than good. This is why you need to be mindful of the company you keep during difficult times.

The people you surround yourself with during your darkest moments make a huge difference in how you feel moving forward. In these moments, it is best to gravitate toward the close friends and family members who know how to drag you out of your mood, rather than feeding into it. Whether you need a good laugh from an old friend or a stern lecture from a parent, knowing who to spend time with when you need to find your spiritual center is wildly important and can change the landscape of your emotions.

Take Time To Sit

Though being around other people is a great way to start strengthening your spirit and working through your difficult times, you also want to balance this with spending time by yourself. In the modern era, where connecting with other people is as simple as pushing a button, it can often feel like moments of true solitude are few and far between. This means you need to make a concerted effort to disconnect from the physical world around you, as well as the digital world that is always available at your fingertips.

The idea is to give yourself time to sit alone and process whatever it is that you are going through. Many people move through life without taking a moment to actually examine the issues bothering them. By giving yourself alone time to think on your current situation, you are allowing yourself the room you may need to process emotions, face certain truths, and understand what it will take to come out the other side of this state of mind. Some people find it helpful to meditate during these moments, but you should do whatever works best for you.

Play Music

When you’re in a low place or dealing with a lot of stress, little gestures or environmental shifts can make a drastic difference. For many, playing music is a surefire way to start alleviating a bad mood. Turn on some of your favorite songs or instrumental pieces that calm your nerves. This simple action might not solve all of your problems outright, but the power of music is an amazing force and it may be able to help you in ways you can’t see right now.

Discovering the strength of your spirit is not always the easiest of tasks. Try out different ideas when you’re feeling low, and soon you will start to discover what works best for bringing you back to a balanced place.

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